Body Language How She Feels About Me?

There are, of course, all the obvious body language signals. Does she smile when you’re around? Does she look toward you often if you’re separated at a party? Does she seem relaxed when she’s alone with you—or does her body posture become stiff and uncomfortable?

Does she touch you, hold your hand, want to be close to you physically?

Most people take note of all these signals unconsciously and resolve them in their unconscious mind. Their conscious mind then becomes aware of the answer: She/he likes me, or doesn’t like me.

As a rule, you won’t choose someone for a girlfriend unless your subconscious has already added up all the body language signals and made a decision. We call that decision attraction or chemistry or interest. In actuality, it’s a mental computer process.

There is also a very subtle clue to like and dislike. Scientists investigating “pupillometrics” report that when you see a person you like, the pupils of your eyes respond by growing larger. Watch for this the next time your girlfriend sees you.