The Terminator's 6 Rules For Dating Success

(That’s how the quote goes right?) 

 

 Anyway, I think this man needs no introduction. 

 

He’s one of the most iconic male role models of our time. He was jacked, cool, and every guy wanted to be him at one time or another. 

 

And a while back he gave a talk about how he became a success and the principles he lived by that got him to where he is today 

 

And I’m going to show you how you can apply each of these golden nuggets of wisdom to your dating life. 

 

“You’ve got to have a vision of what you—not your mother or father—want to do. I knew when I was a kid that I wanted to be a world champion in bodybuilding. I wanted to be the greatest bodybuilder—not just win one competition, but be the greatest bodybuilder of all time. 

I wanted to get out of Austria, to come to America, to be a champion. I had total trust and confidence in that decision and I went after it. Have trust in yourself, craft your own vision, and go after it. Once you have a strong enough vision, you can work like hell to achieve it. 

 

My Thoughts: Trust in yourself that you are enough for ANY woman you’re attracted to. 

 

What kind of woman excites you? 

 

Do you have a preference? 

 

Write down your ideal woman from physical appearance to personality and continue to improve yourself in this so when you do find her… You’ll be ready. 

The awesome side effect of this is when you have your ideal woman clearly painted in your mind, you actually become less needy in your behaviors with other women because they aren’t at the top of your list so to speak. 

 

“People said I could not become an actor. The rules said that actors with accents could not be leading men. I broke that rule. I didn’t care if no one in history had ever done it. I took acting classes, accent-removal lessons, and English lessons. I worked hard, and I became a leading man.” 

 

My Thoughts: If you still subscribe to the idea that you have to be the kind of guy that has to buy her flowers, take her on expensive dates, and woo her with romantic gestures you only see in the movies. 

 

Then stop! 

 

Don’t let society or anyone tell you what you should do in order to attract beautiful women into your life. 

 

Explore different possibilities and ways of doing things. 

 

If one guy tells you that you have to wine and dine her for 3 dates, yet this guy hasn’t been with a girl in years… 

 

And another guy who’s been with tons of women, tells you, you can get a quick lay with a girl and even turn her into your girlfriend if you want… 

 

But it goes against what society tells is right. 

 

What will you do? 

 

I’m not saying do anything unethical, but you’ll be surprised at how often society and the media DO NOT have your best interest at heart. 

 

A failure is someone who falls and never gets back up. A winner falls, gets up, dusts himself off, and keeps moving. Don’t be afraid to fail! Everyone around the world fails. Don’t be afraid to attack that goal. 

 

My Thoughts: Let’s face it. 

You’re gonna get rejected. 

There’s no way of getting around that. 

Don’t be afraid to fail or get rejected by women. 

Embrace it! Embrace the uncertainty. 

Thrive on it! Like that nervousness, you feel is only excitement at what might happen next. 

 

It’s the only way you are going to learn. 

 

That being said, there are strategic ways of drastically minimizing your chances of getting rejected.

You are growing into the best version of yourself regardless if she’s interested or not. 

 

So take that to the bank! 🙂 

 

If I had listened to these people, I would still be in Austria, up in the Alps, yodeling. When I was 15 years old and told people I wanted to be a champion bodybuilder, right away they told me it wouldn’t happen. “It’s impossible,” they said. “It’s an American sport. 

 

 When I ran for governor of California, they said, “No, you can’t. You have to first run for mayor, city council, state senator, and then maybe for governor.” I said to hell with all that. I felt passionate about public service and giving something back. I wanted to run for governor, I ran, and two months later I was governor. 

 

My Thoughts: So you wanna be good with women? 

 

You wanna be able to walk into a room, see a beautiful girl, walk up to and attract her effortlessly? 

 

I say that’s a goal befitting of an Attraction Alpha-Male. 😉 

 

And I know you can do it. 

 

But your friends and family might not. 

 

Don’t let the opinions of others sway something you want in life. 

 

Just like rejection and failure, you’re going to run into the naysayers who will put you down, and tell you, you can’t do it. 

 

Wanna know the best revenge against these negative Nancy’s? 

 

Walking up to that hottie, taking her out of the bar back to your place while your friends stare in utter disbelief. 

 

That YOU did it. 

 

Satisfying amirite? 😛 

 

“A day lasts 24 hours, so don’t limit your working hours to certain portions of it. Work like hell. Work your butt off. No one has ever been successful without working hard. There are no shortcuts. Work like hell and you’re going to make it.” 

 

My Thoughts: I’m all for studying and gaining knowledge in this area. 

 

But until you start actually USING this stuff. 

 

All that knowledge is being crammed into your brain like some sort of information hoarder. 

 

When you learn something, IMMEDIATELY practice it if at all possible. 

 

And keep doing it until you’ve mastered it like the back of your hand, to the point it is a reflex in your toolbox of seduction. 

 

You’ll find yourself drastically improving day in and day out if you do it this way. 

 

“We are not where we are today without any help. We all get help along the way. We’ve never done it by ourselves. Everything I have done—show business, politics, the money I made, success in business and bodybuilding, my foundation, environmental organizations—it’s always with a lot of help from a lot of people. 

 

My Thoughts: I wouldn’t be where I am today if it weren’t for the awesome dudes before me that helped me gain a foundation in my life with women. 

 

This is why I wrote this article. I want to give back what I’ve learned to you. 

 

And I offer you tricks and tips I think will help you nip this area of your life in the bud. 

 

Until next time… 

 

Hasta La Vista Baby, 

 

P.S. I ask you to do one thing for me. 

 

Promise me that once you’ve mastered this area of your life, you’ll pass the torch on to some really awesome but really nervous and stifled guy who just needs a helping hand to show him the way. 

 

Can you do that? 🙂