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How Can I Let Him Know I Want More Foreplay?

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  • I’ve been having an affair with a man I love very deeply, but he always wants to begin intercourse too soon, while I still want more foreplay. How can I let him know what I want?

You can tell your partner a tremendous amount by the movement of your body. You can change position by moving gently away, or you can subtly push his body to the position you want. In all of this, your movements should be gentle and ever playful.

Masters and Johnson, in their study of human sexuality, suggest that since each partner knows his or her own body and its needs, they should guide each other into those ways that pleasure them best.

The most important thing in using body language to communicate your needs during the act of love is to avoid giving your partner any feeling that you’re rejecting him or withdrawing from the situation. One way to be sure of this is to initiate some different types of foreplay yourself without giving your partner the sense that he’s inexperienced.

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