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Is going braless a signal that I'm available?

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  • All the other girls at my school are beginning to go braless, and I think they’re right. I’m so much more comfortable without one. But I tried it last week, and my boyfriend, Leo, blew his stack. He claims this is a signal that I’m available. I think he’s out of his tree! Do you agree?

With the freedom in the dress that women have demanded and received in the last few years, my first impulse would be to agree with you that Leo is indeed out of his tree.

I’d like to believe that most men are too liberated to accept no bra as a sexual come-on. But the facts are more disheartening.

Someone decided to find out just what going without a bra did signal to young men, and a study was undertaken at a group of colleges. Dozens of male students were questioned, and, in an environment where the braless style was the campus fashion, most male students still thought girls without bras were:

1) horny
2) sexy
3) permissive
4) available
5) a sure thing

Leo was not as wrong as we both thought he was.

Reality evidently still has a long way to go before it catches up with the traditional male fantasies!

take a chance !