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Text messages to create attraction

These are aimed at getting some sort of reaction from women (my favorite is the jaw drop) and to build attraction by creating sexual tension and connection. Mix them up however you like. They work great when plugged in the right place and time. You’ll get better responses if you use things that a woman probably never hears; like calling a classy lady a brat.

Accusing a woman for being shallow

“You just like me for being ridiculously good looking”
“You just want me for my hot body”
“Why do you girls always use me for my looks”
“I’m not just some prize to be won”

Surprised to see she actually has good qualities

“Wow, you’re actually fun”
“Huh, you’re smart too”
“I never knew you had feelings”

When a woman is trying to seduce you

“Nice try”
“I know you can do better than that… I hope”

To get her thinking about you

“Stop thinking about me so much”
“Miss me yet?”

Disqualifying her or yourself

I also call this creating doubt, which can be very powerful.

“You don’t like , I don’t think this is going to work out” Example: “You don’t like ice cream, I don’t think this is going to work out”
“You’re just not my type”
“I don’t think you can handle me” — This also has a double meaning
“You’re just not good enough for me”
“You’re just not what I had in mind”
“Are you always this difficult?”
“Why can’t you be a good little girl”
“I’m no good for you”
“This isn’t working out… we just fight all the time”
“You’re just making it worse”
“This isn’t helping your chances with me”

The gold digger approach

“I didn’t know you were rich… I want a divorce now for half of your money”
“Well as long as you make a lot of money, I’m kind of high maintenance.”

Just being friends and other fun plays on her

“It’s ok, I know you want me”
“We’re just friends, even though you want it”
“Whatever, you so want me right now”
“I don’t want to say that I’m better than you, just on a higher”
“Okay your right, let’s make‐out”
“Well I guess if you really want to come you can”
“Yeah, I think my friends will like you” instead of, “I think you might like my friends” see the You can always change your tone to match the atmosphere, but keep the general qualifying mentality that you are the prize to be won.
“You know I don’t normally say this, but you might be the one”
“You’re such a dork”
“I’m sooo out of your league”
“You’re just not my type”

Making sure she is cool

“If you promise to behave then I’ll do a favor for you” and then when she says okay or something, you say, “oh and I don’t do sexual ”
“Just be on your best behavior this time”
“Just try not to embarrass me”

Talk about their clothes and outfits

Girls are always wondering what to wear, so it’s fun to help them out:

“Just wear something cute and I’ll see you then”
“Call me if you don’t know what to”
“Ditch the extensions this time, you looked cuter without”

Ways to tease her

“I think you’re nice, call me ” Calling a woman nice is a compliment you give your neighbor, sister or someone you’re kindly rejecting. She won’t like it if it’s done right.
“You’re like my bratty little”
“You’re Let’s go out”
“You’re boring me, come on, you’re supposed to entertain me”
“Don’t worry; I’m sure there’s something fascinating about you”
“What’s wrong with you?”
“When are you going to take me out?”
“I’m not going to wait around forever you know”
“You seem like you’d make a nice friend”
“You’re decent” or “last night was decent”
If she says something even as simple as “call me” instead of saying okay, say, “Don’t tell me what to do”
If she is asking something from you say, “You’re so demanding”
“You’re not that bad” or when commenting on her cooking say, “it’s not that bad, I’m just surprised you can cook”
“Hey, you look like this one amazing girl in my class…” she responds with “Oh really!” you reply with “Yeah, too bad she wasn’t all that”

Talking as though she is in the 3rd person

“Yeah I’m seeing someone right now, you might know She’s kind of difficult but has a real sweet side to her”
“Yeah I met this really amazing girl last night, hopefully she lives up to the hype” This one is perfect of a really cool girl you just met last night and she asks you if you had Or “I met this really cool girl but she was just so hard to read, I don’t know, you think she likes me?”

Getting her to come over

“I don’t think it’s a good idea for you to come over”
“Come by and say hi”
“If you come over you got to promise not to laugh” She will think that your place is a mess or something, which it shouldn’t be… right?
“Hey I’m going to head home, have fun with your friends”
“You’re nice, maybe we can hang out sometime”
“When are you going to come over and cook for me?”

Challenging her

“I don’t know if you can keep up”
“Can you handle me?” good double meaning
“I don’t think this is going to work out, got any hot friends?”

Role reversals

“You just want to show me off to all your friends”
“You’ll probably just brag to all your friends how you got with me”
“I’m kind of a big deal, so don’t take it personally if I get all the attention”
“What, just because I don’t put out doesn’t mean we can’t be”
“When are you going to take me out to a nice dinner and buy me things?”

Being busy is good

It shows you have a life of your own. Women don’t want to be your life – they want to be a part of your life.

“Hey I’m busy, let’s talk” Sometimes I will just say “I’m busy” and that’s it, which is fine, but you’re not giving her any options, which doesn’t get anywhere.
“Tomorrow is not going to work I got to finish a project.”

Giving her suggestions

Giving her suggestions on things she should do, like tips to improve her look.

“It’s ok, but you should wear your hair down”. This sets up that she must work for your approval.
So if she has blond hair, say “It’s nice, I like brunettes” If she says she can dye it then say, “I don’t want you being fake” or “Just wear a hat.” That will get a punch on the arm. She is there to impress you and get your attention. Think about it, why do women dress up and look as cute as they can? To get your attention and impress you. So put that in the open and have them impress you in other ways.

Remember in all of your text messages to challenge her, flirt, role play, have fun, twist words, crack jokes, put her on the spot, approve, disapprove, qualify, be important, be a mystery, tease and most importantly create some kind of feeling she is going to have when she reads your text. Generally speaking, people always want what they can’t have. So just give her enough hope to keep trying. You can satisfy her from time to time to surprise her, but keep her on her toes. In other words, always keep her guessing and having doubt, with the possibility for excitement.

Secret text tip, exercise the word “NO”

The word NO is a very attractive word to women, especially if they are good looking. It shows that you are picky, you have an opinion, you are a qualifier and you are in control. If she asks, “Do you want to go do this?” and you don’t want to, just say, “no, do you want to?” Or let’s say she wants to meet up and you can’t, instead of saying “oh I can’t sorry” say, “No, next week will be better.” It’s a very powerful word because the word NO internally triggers a challenge.

Another reason is that women don’t hear that word from men a lot (especially the attractive ones). They almost always hear yes this and yes that or some passive way of saying no. So during your text messaging, try to exercise the word NO.

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